Its 30th of December,and i believe guys and girls out there are ready to rumble New Year, with new resolutions and ambitions. some of us even will try to fullfil our "unsettled" issues before this, now... Anyway,guys maybe they will stick to their "port" and celebrate New Year in their own way..and the girls..this is when things goes unpredictable...just kidding...well,talking about girls going clubbing,spend their weekends at bars and clubs,exspecially Indian girls it really hurts..sometimes.
Well,nowdays this topic has become hot and probably the most discussed in online indian blogs, articles and so on. So,this is a sensitive issue{made to be like that} , and its true..SENSITIVE. We've read all about this crap, time to time, and everytime I go through all this blogs,I can feel how much our Indian guys are concerned about our girls, from our society.Just in one word, all these guys are dissapointed of from what they had experienced.
Once I was surfing a blog, a blogger tells his side of story, when he was in a club, with his friends, and he saw a couple in the club drunk, dancing together. After a while our blogger was shocked, when he saw the same girl , who was dancing with her boyfriend moments ago,is now dancing with another guy, and her so-called boyfriend is watching them dancing. [ Yenna Kodumai Saar]. Our writer of the blog, in the state of dissapointment maybe,questioned everyone, Is this what they call cultural shock?
This is just an example of one, and I still think that this sort of issues are happening everywhere...Yes,it is true..everytime when you see indian girls working or simply drops in to hang around and to have fun,it really irriatates...What happened to Bharatanatyam classes, Sanggetham and music classes our indian girls used to go to spend their free time...?It doesnt matter with whom these girls are coming? Their boyfriends, friends or whoever it might be..it still sucks!! How could nowdays guys are so bold to bring their girlfriends to pubs and clubs!! Maybe they are not in a serious relationship with those girls..its clear..they just want **## around...[not to guys who used to bring this same girl everytime they go clubbing].. Maybe they are so obssesed to Las Vegas style or San Francisco...why on earth these girls are adopting these styles here in our country when no body is appreciating them except their own boyfriend and friends[ intha dress unggalukku rombo alzhazgha iruku..and you look sexy in that] and the most interesting part, most of the girls will fall for that...trust me..and what will happen they will continue to do that...[kandravi da]
I really got no idea why all of them [girls] are into this so much, untill they have to behave in such an ucceptable manner. Are they really hooked up with all this mind relaxing activities, tension-releasing or whatever it is, I am not getting it! I have a friend, and i know his sisters's friends...one day when I went to my friend's house to pick him up for our Badminton game,and when i was waiting for him, his sister's friend were there discussing to go for clubbing after college exam finishes, my friend heard this and said "velekumaaru pinchurum...verey idamey kidaikilaiyah?"...I started to think why they decided to go clubbing after they finish their exam..GOD why not they say something about going for a trip..somewhere, for picnics or things like that...Dissapointed..they are starting to misinterpret everything...
Lets talk about Ladies Night..Indian girls are far more concerned about this event.Not to condemn them but its the truth. Really,when you know that they really can buy drinks[beer] for half from the original price[some Pubs and Clubs are really offering]. When you talk about Ladies Night,[sickening word] i dont know for others but for me it is. Please let me to explain to those who might be thinking where Ladies Night is an event where all clubs will be crowded with girls, well it is a promotional event ussually held in clubs and bars.
All of you got it? It is just one of the promotional tactics by the management of the entertainment clubs to attract more customers, and by using these girls as "free advertising tool" they really getting what they want...I dont know in Malaysia, but in the United States, Ladies Night events have been successfully challenged in lawsuits by men who were discriminated against by these events. So,just wait till someone to come up with this same move here..It happened there, why not here? My request, just dont let all that to happen and we dont deserve it because it is not a culture where we used to it..Do I sound hypocrite?
The actual problem here is changes in our style of expressing everything,exspecially girls. I am not trying to condemn all the girls here. I still believe there is a lot of young beatifull girls out there dont really prefer to hang out in nightclubs and bars,and most of them hates it[ I think so]. Basically, girls are very sensitive, and when it comes about another girl who seem to be better than themselves, their high sensitive receptors in their brain will make them to feel more sensitive and willingness to change and adopt a new style of living by 15-20%.I know..It doesn't even sounds like an idea,rite? Whatever, maybe what I've stated above in your point of view is not relevant to the topic I am talking about,but still i choose to write this in this way because there is some reasons behind that.
Look, I am not trying to insist that clubbing is wrong , sometimes I really feel like "puking" when I confront girls overeacting in pubs.Alright. I have to admit we, (guys) do fail to maintain our "machoness" too especially when we are drunk. But what I am trying to pin point here is when its about guys I still can digest the fact, I mean all of us do have this common understanding about average Indian "machans" out there on how we will act in this situations. At the same time I am responsible to send a clear and loud message that guys are in the middle of educating process on changes we need on how we behave particularly in certain situations. But in the opposite side they are not even trying or at least even think about it.
Finally lets talk about perceptions our kaigals out there will make when encounter some average Indian girls in pubs.Yes, we will be having bad perception about them, drawing our own sketch about this matter, speculating around and things like that.For instance let say a group of guys are hanging around in a pub,and there comes another group of girls witrh their boyfriends entering.Normally the very first speculation will be made on that moment. For example:
Abang 1- "kootittu vantaanunggalah. Yenggathan thedi kandupudikaranungguloh"
Abang 2- "Paakey oru maariyah irukunnggey intha pillinggey..."
Abang 3- "Intha sarakunggey thanni adikonggey poleh,athan inngey vanduirukunggey"
Believe me, I am sure if there is any average Indian like me out there reading this, and they will immediately notice whatever written above is true.After all these speculations thrown at these girls, still nobody seem to be bothered or concerned. I know I can"t be always right. Most of the time, I've seen girls hanging out in clubs and pubs,just by looking at them we can straightaway the first thought will be "Wow, sarakku"...It doesn't matter wether all these girls are going to this kind of places just because to have fun or entertainment purpose, still it brings bad omen for them. Trust me..This is true..
Being realistic and optimistic in this matter really can help change our own perception in this issue.So think don't spoil our own culture by adopting alienated cultures, as it doesn't benefit anyone in any term.
Remember,we just have to warn them that these kind of activities are able to lead to self destruction, and has the potential to destroy every single important values in our life. If we didn't encounter this issue properly, it might get worst in future, so please be wise.
Vaazhga Tamil, Tamilans and Tamilachis. Long Live the Indians
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